Tip #16

The experience of having someone trim and shape the hair around his most private parts is deliciously erotic. There’s something about the cold tingle of steel and the brushing of casual fingers around his most sensitive parts that gets the imagination - not to mention his ardour - pumping.

Tip #15

Tell your man that you have discovered some new sex tricks that feel great to you, and so that he can get an idea of how sensational they are, you are going to try out their equivalent on him. Then demonstrate. This way you can give him a treat.

Tip #14

To get the most out of sex, you need to give yourself permission to luxuriate in physical pleasure. One woman did so by telling herself that she was a princess and as such was entitled to enjoy any luxury or spoiling that she was offered.

Tip #13

Women are one hundred times more likely to be affected by sexual smell than men. Men, on the other hand, react more negatively to strong perfumes.

The trick then is to lay off the scent yourself, but encourage your man to wear it instead ...

On the other hand, men are statistically more likely to be turned on by what they see, by the visual impact of long legs and high heels, the slick of shiny tight trousers, the curve of a rounded bottom.

Women could learn a thing or two from this and practice noticing the sexier points about their man; studies show men’s buttocks are one of women’s first focal points!

Tip #12

Identify your sexual flash-points.

A sexual flash point can be a thought (say, the idea that the minute you meet someone special, you want to go to bed with him), or an urgent desire for sex. Typically women have two flash-points during their menstrual cycle; the first is around ovulation (when oestrogen levels peak) and the second a day before or a two before your period is expected (when testosterone levels peak).

Whatever and whenever your flash-point is ,once you know it, let yourself enjoy it. Follow it up; don’t resist!